Taking Risks To Meet New People

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I posted recently about leaving church.  Some of the commenters who identified with that post also expressed their frustration of not being able to find people living near them that want to follow Jesus in a deep way and share their experiences.  I have definitely found that it involves taking risks to meet new people, especially to find folks who are following Jesus, but outside of western organized Christianity.

And to find a group of people who want nothing but to explore Christ together is extremely rare.

As I said in the other post, there are many people outside of organized Christianity for unhealthy reasons, so there is reason to be cautious.

Discerning Seasons

Also, I think it is worthwhile to mention the importance of discerning what season the Lord may be leading you into.  Perhaps there are people in your life right now that you could build deeper relationships with who are not following Jesus.  Maybe He is calling you to serve the poor in your area in some way.  It may be helpful to focus on what the Lord is bringing into your life rather than what He is not bringing.

Have you ever looked all over your home for something that you need but it seems to have vanished?  You look everywhere over and over until you are exhausted and you give up, resigning yourself to the fact that the item is lost forever.  And it’s at this point when the item magically appears in plain sight.

Point: Sometimes when you stop looking for something it appears right in front of your eyes.

All that being said, I don’t have the answer to anyone’s particular situation, but I can share a few things from my experience if you are looking to connect with others.

8 Ways to Connect with Others

1. Search for groups on meetup.com.  Sometimes groups or people looking to connect with others will set up a page on this website to find others in their area.  There is a fee for setting up a page, so people who are on the site are willing to make a small investment to connect with others.

2. Look for Facebook groups related to organic/simple/house church in your area and join them.  You can also see what kind of things are posted in the group and get a little bit of an idea if you think you’ll want to try and meet with them.

3. Look for general Facebook groups related to organic/simple/house church that are not location specific.  Post in the group and ask if anyone knows of any groups meeting in your area.  Some of these groups keep a document on the page that lists where many of the members are located.  (You can look up the open group “Organic Church Movements” as an example.)

4. Perform a Google search for “organic church [your town/city/area]”, “house church [your town/city/area]”, etc.  The group that I meet with maintains a basic webpage so local people can find us if they are searching.

5. If none of the above work out, consider starting your own page on meetup.com or Facebook.

6. Start a book club using a book on the deeper life in Christ at your local bookstore, library, etc.  I haven’t done this but I know others who have been able to connect this way and ended up forming a group together.

7. Volunteer at a local Christian ministry of some kind.  Look for an organization that is being the hands and feet of Jesus in the community without judgment towards those they are serving.

8. If you don’t find any groups in your area, search other areas nearby and see if you can visit with those groups or if they possibly know anyone in your area who might be looking to connect with others.

I hope this list provides some avenues for you to try and connect with others.  I have definitely found that this can be a long, slow path to follow.  I encourage you to keep looking, but also to avoid trying to force something to happen.

Do you have any other suggestions?  Share them in the comments.

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5 thoughts on “Taking Risks To Meet New People

  1. Yes those are good suggestions and I tried some of them..I just spoke with the father and trusted him to lead me into a group that took him really seriously and he has led me to a place..I have a freind in New York who is struggling and I told her that living by Gods spirit will cause you to be isolated but just keep talking to your father and in time he will connect you to where he wants you.

  2. I can certainly agree with feeling alone after leaving the organized church. My wife and I, after several years of questioning and praying, left and have been outside the walls for a year now. We meet with fellow believers anytime we can, but it certainly has been hard finding anyone to meet with on a continual basis, especially someone who is going through the same feelings and thoughts on organized religion. I do believe God leads us through the wilderness for a while, more or less to detox from the religion we’ve been taught over the years, and to learn to depend more on Him. There is always the thought now and then of going back, but the freedom and dependence on Him we’ve found outside of ‘church’ is much better than the way we felt sitting in a traditional service week after week.
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    • Detoxing is definitely a season that many people go through. I agree with your comment completely. Thanks for sharing!

  3. Since commenting on the Leaving Church post several days ago, Christ has made it clear to me not to rush it and go scrambling to find community in my own strength. He is showing me that He has a specific purpose for this season. I’m finding more reasons to be grateful for it. It’s a gift that hurts, but a gift just the same. I trust Him to lead me to where and with whom He wants to start building. He’s faithful, and it’s all His anyway! 🙂

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